Sunday Post 50: My Faith Journey

Posted by Danny

I was nominated to be an elder at my church for next year. I’ve served once before and am humbled to be asked again; I didn’t think I did that well last time. But you never know why the committee felt led to ask me. Maybe there is a reason.

Part of the process of becoming an elder is to walk through on your own faith journey, and then to share it with the current class of elders. Going through that process at this time in my life was pretty emotional.  I sort of stopped in my tracks when putting pen to paper .  What do I believe now?  How has it change over the past two years?  How am I evolving?

These were some of the thoughts I shared after pretty careful examination:

The last time I stood in front of you, about 8 years ago, I explained how my upbringing by a minister and an incredibly faithful grandfather had strongly set the foundations of my faith. Needless to say, with the loss of my wife last year, it is really, really good that groundwork had been laid.

To say that my foundation has been cracked is an understatement. My somewhat stable footing was the epicenter of a 9.5 earthquake.

Maybe I shouldn’t say this in a meeting where I’m supposed to be professing my faith, but God and I have had it out over the past two years. I think some people come through tragedy without questioning God – and I’m envious of their strength. Unfortunately, that was not me.

I still can’t figure out why in the world He didn’t step in and heal Lisa.

I remember, not long after Lisa’s death, falling on the floor of my shower in utter grief and full of anger. I beat on the floor and let God have it. And frankly, I felt better after giving Him a piece of my mind. At the time, I thought He certainly deserved it.  That was a spiritual low point for me.

And even 22 months later, I don’t understand why.  I have decided I never will.

I can, however, tell you what I do understand:

1) I understand that no matter what I say to God, no matter how mad I get, He has big shoulders and can take my questions and frustrations. He understands my grief – and sends comfort even as I have been unfaithful.

2) I know that God has angels – some of them are in this room right now. And just when you feel you can’t take one more step, one of them shows up at your door with a Tupperware container of artichoke dip. And they cry with you. And they come back the next week.

It never fails, that at my lowest points, an angel has crossed my path.

3) I’ve learned that God sends signs. I’ve asked God to prove that Lisa is OK – and He has made that apparent in small, yet remarkable, ways.  I won’t share them tonight because some of you might think I am crazy – but believe me, she’s OK.

4) And finally, I understand that God walks with you in your pain. How do I know this? I know because I know Danny Tanner – and I know how weak I am. Lots of folks don’t see that, but there is a lot of mush under this survivor exterior. I know, for a fact, that I would not be here today – beginning to see some joy again – on my own. The only way I’ve found the strength to get through this nightmare is by the pure grace of God.

And so, this elder candidate has questions – and probably always will. I sometimes have had doubts. I am surely  unfaithful at times. But this honest back and forth with God has made me think and grow as never before. And for that, I am thankful.

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  1. Homestead Ramblings

     /  January 1, 2012

    Well said, dear Sir, well said.

  2. Aunt Susan

     /  January 1, 2012

    Just tell them to read this and a lot of your posts, Danny, and the elders will know that you are a good and unique choice for the church. You will bring a new perseptive and light to the problems of the church. As for growth, you are growing and learing to accept what we cannot not know, oh yeah, that’s faith. But you have grown, and will step back, but remember the angels are always there to catch you, unless you need to fall down, then they will help you up.

  3. Gail Carnagua

     /  January 1, 2012

    What beautiful and honest words on the this first day of the new year. May we all in 2012 be dramatically and faithfully aware of God’s grace in our lives. He truly is our “constant” and loves and supports us no matter what.

    Always thinking of you and your family,


  4. Wayne

     /  January 1, 2012

    That’s my boy! Dad

  5. Norma Pedersen

     /  January 1, 2012

    If I understand the Bible correctly, even Job was angry with God, but he never stopped believing in God. In Chapters 6 and 7 of Job, he was angry with God, and let him have it! But the good news from this passage is that Job (like you) are still talking to God. Job never shut the door on God, and neither have you. As Micahel Card wrote in his book A Sacred Sorrow, Lament keeps the door open, keeps Job on the dance floor with God until the music is over. Keep dancing with God Danny, and keep the conversation going with God.

  6. Jean

     /  January 1, 2012

    If I don’t read another word on this New Year’s Day, this post is enough. It is my belief that a man who questions his worthiness is just the man God can use the most!!

  7. April

     /  January 1, 2012

    It’s all about faith, faithfulness and His sustaining grace. There’s no other way to get through this life.

  8. Courtney Searcy Thompson

     /  January 2, 2012

    Bruce you have amazing strength and hopefully you now realize that with the help of your angels and with the faith you have in God. Believe in yourself.

  9. It is in the toughest times that we grow the most. It’s not wrong to question God or even be angry with Him. As long as we admit that we don’t know why in our weakness and trust that He has the best plan for us if we will just trust and follow Him.
    I have questioned God many times over these past 3 years of being unemployed. I still don’t know why I am in this valley but He is here with me. I await His answers and His leading. Raise open hands to Him not closed fists.


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