Julie always says my childhood sounds like Sandlot. We weren’t playing baseball, but there are some similarities. As I described our summer activities to the girls recently, I think they were surprised by the simplicity of our long summer days.
Boy Land and Girl Land were a favorite of our crew. If we played Boy Land, the guys would chase the girls, catch them and take them to jail where they would have to do anything we instructed them to do. Our general antics were jumping jacks, eating grass or stepping on a stack of sandspurs. Much to my father’s dismay, our yard was full of them. I preferred Girl Land for some odd reason. Because there were fewer girls on our street than guys, and because we could run faster than they could, they typically couldn’t catch us until we willingly gave in. Which we always did out of pity and a desire to see what sort of dares they would have us participate in. It seems that ours were always better – they lacked the creativity that my brother and I brought to the table.
If it was horribly hot or rainy, we would head to the basement of our split level house and play Seven Minutes in Heaven. One person would be It. I always resented that the older kids chose It. I dreamed of the day I’d hold that power. It never came. We moved before I aged up.
It would go to the closet and the remainder of the group would use a form of “one potato, two potato, three potato, four…” where we’d all put both fists up while standing in a circle while the group leader counted us out. My favorite counting rhyme was: Ink a bink a bottle of ink, cork fell out and you stink. It was so much faster than One Potato.
The last one standing entered the dark space through the dark brown, louvered, bi-fold doors to meet It. My favorite It was Tracy McDonnell, a skinny girl who lived on the cul-de-sac with her very strict military father. Everyday at noon, regardless of what we were doing, she would have to immediately head home to feed her three dogs. It was like Cinderella and the striking midnight clock. Apparently Rounder couldn’t wait ‘til 12:08 for his dog chow. His feeding time was noon. She was always on restriction. I don’t know what she did to deserve her ongoing punishments, but I do know we avoided playing at her house whenever possible for fear we’d do something that might get her in trouble. Her dad was omnipresent. He knew if one little dust speck was out of place. She and her sisters always seemed happier when he was in Vietnam.
Tracy would kiss me in the closet – which was very exciting for a nine-year-old boy. The other Its might shake my hand, pass gas for a good laugh, or smack me in the head if they couldn’t get their bodily functions to work on cue.
When I was It I always wanted to kiss Jennifer Fair, she was beautiful. But she was also three years older and my brother’s love interest. Had I kissed her she might have vomited, and my brother might have punished me in his own, cunning way. My mother did not tolerate fights, not even verbal spars. But he could get to me, and I knew it. He was sort of like the mafia boss of Berkshire Road.
My kids are too old for those kinds of activities, but facing a summer where they may not have their typical camp experiences made me think about my dog days. We had no camp. The most exciting thing I ever did on summer vacation was get my tonsils outs. But I wouldn’t change a thing about my experiences. I can still taste Vienna Sausages and my mom’s cherry Kool-Aid (from a powder pouch) popsicles.
Dang, we had fun!
The Real Fuller House 
koolaidmoms
/ May 27, 2020Sounds like a perfect 70s summer! We rode out bikes around the neighborhood endlessly and my favorite flavor of Koolaid was always grape.
Danny Tanner
/ June 9, 2020Grape. So good.