I’ve been working at the YMCA in Raleigh, NC, for thirty 35 years. My first job was driving a Y bus into marginalized communities, picking up kids and bringing them in for activities in the gym, swim lessons and a nightly devotion. The program was called Y Boys, and we certainly had come characters including Budda and Meatball! It’s been a long time, but I remember my kids well.
This past year I’ve run across two of my former campers.
Sarah, a teacher, has raised three kids of her own. She told me she didn’t know she was poor until after she left her neighborhood. Her generation was the first to attend college. Her brother is an engineer, now living in Texas. Her sister has a degree and lives up north. Two of her children are in college, one working on her master’s degree, and one is thriving in high school.
Sarah told me that the Y was her respite. When the Y bus drove into her neighborhood on Thursday afternoons, you did not want to miss the bus, she said. She even remembered the boots I wore on a regular basis and several of the devotions I shared! Who knew they were listening?
I also ran across Albert. He was working at a restaurant – he came over to me and gave me a huge hug. We grabbed lunch the next week to catch up. Every time the Y was open, Albert was there.
Albert wasn’t a lucky as Sarah. He had been sexually abused by his uncle for years. His mother suffered from mental illness with no treatment. Like too many other kids in tough situations, Albert had no idea that what was going on in his house was abnormal. He just assumed everyone’s experience was similar to his.
He’s in his thirty’s now, and he said to me: “Coming to the Y was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was the best time of my life.”
When he told me that, my first though was How sad. I then thought that perhaps is our sole role for some kids, to provide light in a dark world. I’m grateful our organization has been able to do that for so long.
Since the mid 80’s, we have expanded our service in marginalized communities to include academic assistance after-school for 1,800 children at 55 different program sites here in the Triangle area. We run full day summer camp where children get breakfast and lunch, learn to swim and receive an hour of academic remediation each day. They pay $10/week (if they can).
Today at noon, the YMCA of the Triangle Areas kicks off our 48 Hours of Giving. If you are in a situation where you might be able to contribute and help me meet my goal of raising $5,000 by Friday at noon, I encourage you to click on the link below. And if you need assistance from the Y, please let me know. We are open for ALL, regardless of your ability to pay.
Oh, and Scotty McCreary, a former Y camper, is holding a concert Thursday at 4 on Facebook for the Y. Join in if you can.
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/ September 23, 2020Goes to show you never know who’s watching and paying attention. Long story short—am having complicated computer problems and cannot do online financial transactions. Will send a check if you’ll give me an address.
Danny Tanner
/ October 6, 2020You are kind! No worries.